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writes:Hi, My wife and i are seperated for almost 4 months now. After, she kicked me out, she found a guy that she dated 5 times in the past. she kicked me out in the past and she took me back after weeks. We have our problems, like most marriage couples has. The last time she kicked me out i started taking councling but it was the wrong kind that i needed. I told her that it was the wrong kind so i finished it anyway. She told me the other day it worked out for about 7 months and didnt help me. i found the councling i need this time and she doesnt want consider in working our problems out. Were still married and she just now came up with the money but she still hasnt filed yet. I cant seem to leave her alone and havent giving her any space to decide what she wants to do. We have a 3 year old son together that i love dearly. It seems like when she gets mad at me for asking her what i did wrong she says everyting and no detail at all and she keeps my son away from me. What should I do to get my ex back when I tell her I'm being serious about working out our marriage? Why is she being like this and does she have feelings for me for not filing right away? Do i have a chance at her happiness again? thanks for reading this and taking time to helping me out.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 October 2010): I never cheated on my wife or anything of that matter. I was completly faithful towards her. All she says about the realationship that i was an a**, I never could keep a job through temps , getting laid off, my attitude towards her, she thinks that i never loved her caused i never showed it out in public that much but i thought she knew how i feel about her, i've been taking marriage councling to express my feelings , to be honest, how to treat people, and attitude. Its been going okay but i wrote my ex letters just say how i feel about her,that its just tearing me up inside to loose her as a wife. Her dad moved in with her about a month so she has it made right now. She dropped my son to me today and i asked her if she going to file, she said that she got the money save now. This afternoon i told her the reason why i was taking councling, how i felt about everything and also that i wasnt going to wait on her anymore that i was going to file. she has yet return my text. Should i file and see what her outcome is? Do you think im doing the right thing about telling her how i feel?
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reader, elite123 +, writes (15 October 2010):
what exactly do you need counseling for? drugs? alcohol? mental issues? without knowing it will be hard to say. have you cheated on her that she knows of? what else could be going on here? also.. she has no right to keep your son from you.
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