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30-35,
*amousLoverGirl
writes: Ok, so i have this guy friend who i will have known 4 a year now this nov. i never really liked him until just resently. i found out he has liked me ever since he met me. im 15 and a sophmore he is 17 and a senor. the only thing is he has a girl friend, even though he likes me? he even wrote a song 4 me but he just started going out with her again cuz they were broken up 4 a few weeks. when they were not together he asked me 2 homecoming. what do i do if he already has a gf? i dont want to be rude or make him jelous but i want him to like me more. can someone please give me some sugjestions? thanx!
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reader, Ven +, writes (17 October 2010):
Oh Lovergirl,
You can go to homecoming (assuming he hasn't decided to take his now girlfriend). Realize that, if he goes with her instead, that he was into you as a plan B. If that happens you need to move on because he is only going to hurt you (NO MATTER WHAT HE MAY SAY).
Also if I may ask, did you only really start to like him after he showed interest in you? If so you have to be really careful: your emotions can be playing tricks on you. That is especially true when it's cute older guys.
So good luck and have fun! Whatever you do, don't lose your head!
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