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writes:Ok, so first thanks for viewing my post =). And second lets get down to dirty business lol. Ok so theres this girl I like at my high school and I don't really know her well. She is my best friend's girlfriend's bestfriend lol. SO basically the way im best friends with my friend(x) this girl is best friends with his girlfriend. And well I asked my friend if she was single but he said no but her and her boy friend had been on the rocks and she'd be meaning to break up with him. I told my friend to forget about it because i didn't want to get involved but he did it anywayz. And she texted me first and we started talking for a few days by texting and I later learned she broke up with her boyfriend who lives far away. Well we had some communication through our friends to each other and I told her I liked her and we talked for little convo's in person to person and exc. And now today i walked her to class and she said that she liked me but barely knew me and we both decided to get to know each other. And well i guess the thing im asking for advice on is... talking to her. I really like this girl and im an outgoing person but when im around her im suddenly found short of words and awkardness and its killing me! lol. So this is definetely what I need advice on. Because i'd really like to be her as in boyfriend and girlfriend but i'm afraid if i cant change theres no possible way. SO does anybody know what I should do in this situation and how I can talk to her??? Thank you!=D
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reader, followtheblackrabbit  +, writes (15 October 2010):
 Relax, hon or at least try to :p When you feel nervous and can't speak, try this : make eye contact and give her a smile. She'll smile back which can work on relaxing you. Another thing you can do is hang out with her around some friends since you're outgoing around them. Also, in an awkward moment, you can plainly tell her, "Wow, it looks like I get really shy around you, I'm usually not like that." Telling her you're shy around her will let her know you like her and as a girl, she'll find it cute and sweet and work to help you feel more relaxed around her. Avoid texting, talk on the phone more. It'll allow you to speak, get used to her voice without the pressure of face-to-face communication and you can actually hear her "lol" :) When you guys hang out alone, try and play music. It can relax and start conversations. But, just relax :) this girl is obviously interested in you or else, she wouldn't bother getting to know you. Best Wishes!
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