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writes:my bf of 2 years is acting weird when i talked to my ex bf. my ex bf was not well couple of weeks n was in hospital. so i called him to hear how he was. told my bf abt this, he started acting weird. he said he is not jealous or possesstive, but always switching off his mobile when i call him and never returning my calls or msgs. please help me how to handle this. please please someone help me, i love my bf very much.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 October 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for all your replies. I called my bf and he is not picking up the call. Sent him a mail saying sorry and will not contact my ex ever again and havent got any reply and he didnt return back my calls and my messages also.
Dont know if this is the end of this relationship. Praying and wishing it wont be. Waiting for his call or message.
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (14 October 2010):
 Everyone gets jealous, even when they say they don't. This ex was sick in the hospital and you were just being a considerate friend by giving him a ring. It's not like you bought balloons and a teddy bear then visited him in person. Your boyfriend is overreacting..just have a chat with him and stress to him that you were just being nice by giving him a call. Nothing more to it. Eventually, he'll get over it so drop the issue after your talk.
You don't have feelings for this ex, right?
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reader, hismrs +, writes (14 October 2010):
 If you love your current boyfriend more than you love your ex you will tell your ex good-bye. Do you have any ties to your ex? Children? If not, you have no reason to keep up the relationship. I have an ex that I used to keep in constant contact with. I didn't want him back, he didn't want me back. We were just friends - no chemistry left to speak of. But we'd grown attached and since things didn't end badly between us, we stayed in contact. None of the guys I dated understood it but I didn't care. In my defense, I'd say "we're just friends, we don't have sex and he's a GOOD person that I want to keep in my life." Once on a visit to my ex in Chicago, his brother asked us what we were doing - why we stayed in constant contact. We reasoned that we were FRIENDS and there's nothing wrong with that. I told the brother "J and me will always be close. No man of mine will ever cause me to break off our friendship.". My ex's brother responded, "You're wrong. Someday you will fall in love and you will leave this "friendship" for something that means more". I thought he was crazy - but he was right. I am in love with someone and he wouldn't be okay with my close relationship with an ex - simply because he is my EX. We have had sex and intimate discussions and touched each other's bodies in places friends DON'T. I hope this helps you. ;)
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (14 October 2010):
The problem with talking to an ex, whatever the reason, is that it causes major problems for a current relationship. Your boyfriend is hurt, and worried. That's why ex's should be left in the past. I think you should you try to speak to your boyfriend, and tell him that you've noticed he's pulled away. And I'd also leave this ex in the past again.
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