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writes:Hey my question is kind of long so here goes, my girlfriend left town a month ago, she says her mom and dad made a plan to ''kidnapp'' her. She hasnt ended things or anything of the sort, i on the other hand am trying to get over her but i cant get any closure because weeks before she left she told me she was pregnant, and a few days ago she tells me she wants us to move in together, she almost never calls even though she claims to and i dont know what to do. Im really thinking of just going to see her( shes a 2 hour drive away) and sort everything out because i cant live like this anymore. I'd appreciate any advice Reply to this Question
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reader, mizz.butterflies  +, writes (15 October 2010):
 go and sort everything out
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 October 2010): I think what you need to know for sure is if she is pregnant. As she made have just told you this because she felt that she was losing you. I think once you know for sure it would make it a lot clearer as to what you should both do next moving forward.
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reader, mz.blue eyes +, writes (14 October 2010):
Wow well if she really is pregnant she should be calling you!Its like shes punishing you on purpose cause my boyfriend does that too so that I want him more.You should try to leave voicemails n everything but not exsesively too much because then she will just know that she has you worrying.Im not going to say shes cheating or what not cause there can be an explanation but u dont desesrve to be unreconized if she loves you!
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reader, Boy Blue +, writes (14 October 2010):
Well if you are going to sort things out try to compile your mind to know the things that you do want to talk about. But just because you get there doesn't mean she will be willing to talk to you. From what you've said it sounds like she doesn't make much of an effort. Try not to have too much expectations but go with the intent to straighten things out. Get your gas and get going. I think face to face is a much better way to handle these things anyway.
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reader, corbandallas +, writes (14 October 2010):
If I were you I would be in my car already! Find out whats going on. I hope everything works out.
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