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writes:OK, I've been married for almost 32 years.I've never been with another woman, but my wife had some flings long ago before we were married.I've always wondered if I'm really big renough for her as she seems to always enjoy sex but almost never climaxes with just intercourse.I measure 7-7/8 long but girth is 6-1/2.From what I read it sounds like I'm ok but since I have nothing to compare to I just wanted some reassurance I guess
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reader, only1 +, writes (15 October 2010):
only1 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionGreat answers thank you.
I specifically liked the bottoming out remaark. I can definitely relate to that as it isn't very often I feel as though it's all the way in because of tightness. She does use alot of lube so, I guess it is what it is.
I appreciate the stats on women that don't get it by intercourse.
As long as I know it's not the tool, I can continue to be more creative, and feel even better about it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 October 2010): Penis size has little to do with orgasms. Yes, some women get off more strongly from a well endowed guy, but I would say the number is rare...maybe 10% or less. You are pretty well endowed. Anything above about 7" is getting into "big" territory. I can only speak for myself as well, but I would guess most women here would tell you that your size is great, if not perfect, and maybe a tad large for some women. They might also say that guys in the 5-7" range do the job just as well as 8-9" guys like yourself. SO dont worry. You have plenty of length and girth.
Now for your wife...most women do NOT come from intercourse alone. Of those that do, most have to "grind" or have some kind of clitoral stimulation along with th epenetration to come. A very very small minority will have an orgasm from the sensation of penetration or friction alone. Even with hard, deep penetration, you might have to put a few fingers down there and rub the man in the boat or change angles. And something else that may be happening here is, you may actually be TOO large to enter enough to get pubis to pubis contact and hit the clit. So if you are bottoming out (not able to get it all in), this may be part of the reason. In my experience, which isn't extensive, most women are under 7" "depth", even when fully aroused and stretched. I'm not a horse, so I can't vouch for women much deeper, but if your wife is in that typical 7" range, you may not be hitting the clit enough. Only you know that. But just sayin'.
So yes...you are def big enough. Bigger than about 85% of guys in fact.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (14 October 2010):
 Your wife is in the 75% club. That's the number of women who NEVER climax through intercourse alone. She's perfectly normal. So are you.
She's not broken, her nerve endings in her vagina aren't as numerous as they are in her clitoris. Her vagina isn't an inside-out penis. Her clitoris has more in common with your penis that her vagina does, so it makes perfect sense that she doesn't climax with intercourse.
People talk about the magic G-spot as though it's a magical button that if pressed properly will send a woman into throes of ecstacy. Well, believe it or not, urologists who operate on women report finding no magical structure associated with the G-spot. It's not a myth that there's good sensations for many women with stimulation in that area, the current consensus seems to be that the clitoris is like an iceberg, there's a great deal of it hidden under the skin and that a root part of it corresponds to the G-spot area.
If she has orgasms, she is not broken. Enjoy her and making love to her, and stop thinking that your penis is somehow inadequate. Lesbians have wonderful sex lives without a penis in sight, after all.
Please take this off your list of worries; trust me, she is not pining for a larger penis.
Good luck!
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reader, dirtball +, writes (14 October 2010):
 If it were a problem for her, I'm sure she would have told you by now. You're above average.
Many women have trouble having an orgasm through intercourse. For some it is simply impossible. In those cases it is important to find something else that will make sure her needs are met.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 October 2010): That's quite large. Maybe you are too big.
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