A
female
age
36-40,
*rianne_15
writes: So, I feel like I'm in a little bit of trouble. I have a 15 month old child, and over the last year and a half I've felt myself drifting apart from my fiance. We've sort of just figured out that he's depressed, and he's going to go talk to someone about it. He's continously apologized for the way he was acting towards me (demeaning, bullying, grumpy)but the problem is, I don't know if that will help. I'm so tired of being picked on, and walking on glass at home. Putting on a facade that isn't real. Even if he goes and talks to a psychiatrist, I'm so used to him being kind of a mean person, that I've put up my barriers and don't see him as the person I fell in love with 5 years ago. I told him that if our daughter wasn't in the picture, I would have been gone long ago. I, don't want to tear our family apart, because I know how hard that can be for a child... but I don't know how much of this misery I can take. I'm so miserable in my life with him. Can anyone give advice??
View related questions:
depressed, fell in love, fiance Reply to this Question Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
reader, anonymous, writes (15 October 2010): Seeing you unhappy and putting up with mental abuse I worse for your daughter than having a part time farther
|