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writes:So I really really REALLY Like this guy that I've known for a year. We havent really hung out outside of school time, but I see him pretty much everyday and he nudges me in the hall ways and says hi and whatnot. And he talks to me during the class we have together and we laugh. Sometimes he makes fun of me :/ but overall I'd consider us good friends...A few weeks ago he said we'd have a "movie night" and watch a movie together... hasn't happened yet. Which is kinda okay, because a.) Ive had no time free anyway b.) yeah... ive have no time. So Im waiting for the day I have free to ask if he wants to hang out or whatever, except sometimes I hesitate because I feel like he doesnt wanna hang out. I just wanna hang out and get to know him, even if its not as friends.But also sometimes I feel like he leading me on, like, Ill give him attention and he'll kinda brush me off a little and then Ill give up and not bother giving him attention, but then he will give ME attention or whatever. My friend says she thinks I get a thrill out of the everyday hope that we can be something, but honestly I want to find closure with him because its getting upsetting and depressing that I like him SO much and Im not with him.Im never with anybody. Im upset that I havent been able to date more people. I just dont understand why guys dont like me ): poopy.im 17 and a senior, bee tee dubbs.(btw). Reply to this Question
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reader, jkul +, writes (15 October 2010):
When I was in high school, which wasn't too long ago, I was in the same predicament. There are guys that are interested but is scared of rejection, and there are guys that like to flirt, and they like the feeling of girls liking them, even if they don't feel the same way.
Why don't you try flirting with him? Touch his arm when you're talking to him, look right into his eyes, and smile at him. About that movie? In an conversation, talk to him about movies, movies you like, movies he like, and talk about that movie you want to see at the theaters so much, and how you been dying to see it, but your friend don't want to go, and you don't like going alone. He should get the clue. If he's interested, he'll go for it. Go on from there?
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reader, perfectdovez12 +, writes (15 October 2010):
 You are only 17 and in highschool so you will have sooo much more time to date. im 20 and i didnt really start dating alot till last year when i got to college. you are young and have toooonnnsss of time to date!!
I feel as though you should maybe ask him what he thinks of you. If he says that he likes you as a friend then so be it, you can find another guy :) and knowing in my eyes is better then not knowing, you dont want to waste your time trying to be with him when you could be trying with some other guys that might like you. To me if he hasnt tried to make another movie night then he is waiting on you to make time. Maybe when you have this movie night you can see how that goes then maybe talk to him.
good luck sweetie!! :)
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reader, Megb +, writes (15 October 2010):
 Ok i'm also seventeen make sure your confident guys seem to head to the girls that are confident in themselves.Just go up to him set a time and date if he hesitates or brushes you off move on he isn't worth your time.It seems he gets interested in you when your not interested in him so you moving on will drive him crazy..
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