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30-35,
*av attack
writes: i just got over a relationship with a high school sweetheart. we had been friends for a good 6 years and dated for another two. it was great. she ran off after we had our first fight. she has commitment issues and so do i. both our fathers were alcoholics. mine ran off with a whore. hers beats her mother. she will get upset easily. for instance we got into a fight when i quit smoking. it was our first fight and even tho i pre apologized for it incase it happened on accident she still left. took all my stuff too and droped me off in the middle of nowhere. she says i want her back cus i cant have her. and that since ive never been dumped i lost my pride. upseting. im young but i really just wanna find someone i love and am perfect with, get married and have a baby. long story short i want her back. what do i do?
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (22 November 2010):
18-21, you're still pretty young and I suggest figuring out you first..Follow a career path, and find your niche in this world. From your post this high school sweetheart sounds pretty ruthless..taking all of your stuff and dropping you off in the middle of nowhere? Why would you even want her back?
I suggest you move forward with your life and leave her where she belongs in the past. Maybe you two can be together one day in the future when you both have your life together..but for now don't count it.
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reader, Rav attack +, writes (22 November 2010):
Rav attack is verified as being by the original poster of the questionalso. i have an alcohol problem. im not an addict tho. cuz i realize its a problem. when i drink i dont like to stop till im going home. which is about a thirty from afterwork till fouram. i got it down to a weekend.
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