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30-35,
*nxpectedSmile
writes:About a month ago i met this guy and we clicked right away we would have long phone conversations every night he would text me and keep in touch all the time. He asked me out but i told him i wanted to wait until we got to know each other more before we rush so we met up this month and had a great time and he asked me out again and I said yes. It everything was okay for about a day then he got "extremely" busy with work and he wouldn't text me until i texted him or every time i called he would either cut the call short or wouldn't answer. I don't call him 100xs a day or text him i will give a small text around lunch and ask how his day is going and give him a call at night. I haven't had a real conversation with him in about a week and we haven't talked in about three days.I am trying to avoid coming off as clingy and needy and I understand he is busy with work but he has been on facebook updating his status. When we spoke last i asked him if everything was fine and where do we stand and he said he cared about me and he wanted to be in a relationship with me. We've only been dating about 3 weeks and i feel like i'm still single just more unhappy. I know everything isn't suppose to be sunshine and people have lives but it's like we aren't even in a relationship.
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reader, UnxpectedSmile +, writes (23 November 2010):
UnxpectedSmile is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thanks for your reply. He has found someone new and i guess he had been seeing her all along.
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reader, mizz.butterflies +, writes (22 November 2010):
 1) U said u didnt respond positively to his asking out because u wanted to get to know him first. U GET TO KNOW SOMEONE BY "GOING OUT" WITH THEM WHICH MEANS INDULDING IN ACTIVITIES TOGETHER.
2) He got bored with the same ol' conversations over the phone. Guys are not like Kevin in a Barbie's world where they will stay waiting for u forever on the phone.
3) just drop it all together...by now he thinks ur clingy.
4) dont make the same mistake again. Do not talk to a guy every night over the phone. Let him pursue u. When he asks u out ,accept and spend some time with him.
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