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anonymous
writes: Hello, im bi-curious at least i think i am, but im just really confused about the fact i like guys but the other night when my friend put porn on there were lesbian interactions and i couldn't help feel aroused. Though the thought of me actually being with another girl isn't as pleasant.Am i bi? and if i am where does that lead me?
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reader, CJH +, writes (21 January 2011):
Stop laebeling yourself sweetheart, just be who you are.
The porn may have aroused you for all sorts of reasons - perhaps you just imagined your own body being touched or aroused as the girls on screen were. That doesnt mean your Bi, Gay, Straight or anything, it simply means youre YOU.
If the thought of actually being with a woman doesnt turn you on, dont force yourself to experienmce it. Take life as it comes, do the things you want to do and dont do the things you dpont want to do.
Were all different and thats what makes the whole thing so much fun. Constantly trying to categorize or label yourself will just restrict who and what you are.
In short? Stop worrying and enjoy yourself in whatever way you can. You only live once.
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