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writes:been dating my gf for 6 1/2 months and been living together for about a month. We are a typical couple and we fell in love about 2 months into the relationship maybe even a bit sooner. Anyways, as of recent I have noticed a change in my gf. Since we have moved in she has become more distant and it has sparked an arguement pretty much everyday to the mundane to ME being an idiot and asking whats wrong? In early novemeber she took a trip to florida to visit with family. I felt that when she came back she seemed just less interested in me. She has an 8mo old dog that she loves very much too. I as well love the dog. So we talked things through I told here why I was upset because she wasnt the same as when we first started dating ie running up to see me and give me a hug . though she still hugs me and kisses me. And i said i would try to be moth empathitic to her wanting to make the apt nice and settled. The other day i was online and found she had been on a website to move overseas with her dog for grad school ... she has NEVER said anything to me and i dunno what i should do ? is this just a womans fantasy? or should i take it literally? shed be gone for 2 years as she wrote and I just feel terrible in side and i want to give her space. am i over reacting or is this something more?
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reader, dirtball +, writes (22 November 2010):
 She could be looking at options. She could be serious. She could be fantasizing about going to school there. You'll never know unless you talk to her about it. Has she mentioned looking at grad schools? If she has, you can ask her if she's found any good ones or put in any applications.
In your 6 months, it sounds like only about 2 of those were what you would classify as "good." Maybe this relationship isn't working for either of you.
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