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writes:Hi I have been in a relationship with a guy for about 3yrs but things are not going as good as they should be,and so i told him i wanted to end things. what has shocked me is his remarks to me saying this.first he said I could never say good bye to him, then he said i could never forget him,and if that wasn't enough he then said He'd be willing to bet i couldn't go more than 2 days before i txt him again.i'm gob smacked by all of this who and what does he think he is ?and what self opionated things to say to me,i really don't know what to make of it all,he obviously thinks he has me right where he wants me, and has no respect for me at all, i'd just like some other opionions to his comments and am i thinking right and he does have no respect for me.I could never or would i even think of saying stuff like that to anyone.maybe he has a big ego,and thats what go in the way of our relationship.i just don't know. i'm really shocked that he would say those things to me. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 November 2010): What he said isnt that shocking really. It might have seemed shocking because he was arrogant rather than crushed at being dumped. But he was just stroking his own ego because he was being let go. It must have hurt his pride. Ive heard of ex partners saying far worse. Just leave him to his delusions.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 November 2010): If he doesn't respect you, then why are you with him? Yes, i agree he sounds like a bit of a jerk to be honest. If you aren't happy then show him the door. If he really thinkd you can't be without him, prove to him that you can.
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reader, fi_the_tree  +, writes (22 November 2010):
 I'm going to tell you the 3 most important words for you to follow right now...
"prove him wrong"
say good bye to him, forget him, and get rid of his number! He clearly doesn't have any respect and if you completely cut him off he'll realise that you are stronger than he thought you were, and may even come crawling back. Then you can look him directly in the eye and say "i don't need you in my life anymore" and you can walk away with a massive smile on your face!
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