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writes:What do men find sexy in a woman? Is it her smile, is it the way she carries herself, is it the way she looks, is it her attitude towards life, etc...? I really would like to men what men perceive as sexy in a woman. Thank you in advance. :) Reply to this Question
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reader, dmartin89  +, writes (23 November 2010):
 Ahh anonymous, you brought a tear to my eye!
I love the women out there who understand that you don't have to dress provocatively to find a nice guy, and most men are kind and soft at heart..in their own way.
My boyfriend thinks i'm incredibly sexy in my over-sized grey Gap hoodie and pj bottoms, no make up and hair toussled. others would say i look like a slob! Sexiness is in the eye of the beholder.
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reader, carefree +, writes (23 November 2010):
carefree is verified as being by the original poster of the questionNice anonymous female reader! Well said. I appreciate you input.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 November 2010): I remember going to the supermarket after work one evening. I was mulling around doing my grocery shopping in my jacket and skirt... hair done and makeup and groomed nails.Out of nowhere comes this tattooed, long haired really TOUGH guy. He would have been the sort of guy you'd be afraid of if you were walking alone on the streets at night. Extremely tall and very muscular.To my surprise, he gently and very eloquently... begins to speak. And says.... "how refreshing it is to see a lady... A real lady. I wanted to let you know how wonderful it is to know that ladies actually exist in this world. You've given me hope."I went on a dating site. Posted very pretty pictures of my face and wrote a bio that spoke about my life as a pastry chef, my religious/spiritual point of view and generally... clean living. I spoke of sincerity of the heart... not sex.Once again, and to my surprise... I received 60 written and lengthy emails from men complimenting me on my beauty and the fact that I was a true prize because I am a lady. I received these 60 letters within an 8 hour time frame. No one asked for a blow job, anal sex, a hotel hook up. Nope. The wrote me poetry, told me how rare I am, offered a 'date' for brunch on a Sunday... you get the idea. Some were widowers who had looked long and hard for a true lady.With all of this talk about sex, sex parts, sex acts, hook ups, friends with benefits and all that nonsense.... I wonder if it is getting anyone anywhere except used up and tired.While remaining a lady I have still remained very sexy. I am 100% female. I have never had a one night stand and I never will.I'd rather be the girl/woman who is admired and desired... than a used rag any day of the week.But through all of these experiences I've had... I've learned something about men.Deep down ... not all men are pigs. Some actually dream of having a lady with their head screwed on straight. Some men actually dream of it.... a beautiful loving woman making them homemade pancakes in the morning wearing lingerie. Imagine that. No hookups, dirty talk, freaky sex, hotels, or cheating necessary.Some men's hearts are actually in their hearts.. and not their penis.
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reader, escribanus  +, writes (22 November 2010):
 A sexy woman must be clean and smell great.
A sexy woman must have a beautiful smile.
A sexy woman must have a sexy attitude.
A sexy woman looks at you and you feel better that tarzan ot brad pitt.
A sexy woman makes you feel you have a change to get into heaven but that you will have to work hard for it (I rather a lady and not a slut)
A sexy woman knwos how to dress and, to comb and to use make up. In order to look elegant, natural, respectable.
A sexy lady can give you a smile that reminds you a naughty child and a look that reminds you an angel.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (22 November 2010):
 I think its sexy if she looks me in the eye and talks to me, smiles and shows an interest in me as a person. That makes me interested in getting to know her, and eye contact in particular can be so sexy. If she (or he for that matter) genuinely gives me of their time, holds eye contact, and has that "look" in their eye, then thats sexy.
The look Im referring to is the look that tells you they are interested, mysterious, and creates an intimate zone between me and them.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 November 2010): Eyes they are the major attraction for me. When a girl has beautiful eyes then I'm hooked.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (22 November 2010):
 What DON'T we find sexy? ;-)
To answer all of your questions in one word. Yes. We find all those things sexy.
It's the whole package carefree. The whole package.
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reader, angelluvr +, writes (22 November 2010):
First thing I notice on a woman is her rear-end! It has 2 be nice and firm. Then I find a womans smile real sexy!
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