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writes:I'm in a 5 year relationship. I'm 33 he's 28. It's also been LDR for the last 2 years. I'm in grad school he has his own business. We get a long really great when we're together (about every 6 weeks) and really love each other. There are no plans to move to the same place since I have at least 2 years of being here and his business is dependent on being where he is. Will we make it? I'm beginning to think it's hopeless. I've never been the planning type but now that i'm in my 30s I wonder if i'm supposed to think of the future. I only want children if I'm with someone I really love and am in a decent financial situation. We've talked about it many times and never come to any conclusions. What should we do? Should I set him and myself free? I really don't want anyone else but I feel like it's almost inevitable. I'm also afraid I'll never meet anyone who I'll love as much. What should we do? Should we take a chance and keep going because of our strong bond? Does it matter that he's only 28? This has been making me sad for awhile now as the distance is really taking a toll on me.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (22 November 2010):
 Ok first of no it doesnt matter what age he is, age is only a number and you are both adults. you say you have two years left in your course, well if you truely love each other and you think you could both wait out those two years then go for it. Talk to him and ask him does he think that he could work on being together long distancce until you finish your course and then possibly once you are finished you could move up there and be with him, it sounds like you have found love and it would be a shame to give it up, if both of you work hard enough for the next two years then you could both have a happy future together.
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