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male
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51-59,
anonymous
writes: my wife when we started dating had other partners before and I was a virgin does that make me a type of cuckold? Should it bother me ? I had other girlfriends but never went all the way . Se was a loyal girlfriend although she did talk to her former lover sometimes and would deny it she has always been loyal wife.should I be bothered? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 November 2010): If you are a normal healthy man then it's not unusual for this to bother you at all.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 November 2010): Please dont let it bother you. You knew this before you asked her to marry you so why would you let it bother you and create tension in the relationship?Both me and my husband were not virgins when we got together and we both knew this. 6 years down the road I still hear about my previous partner and about how bad of a person I am because I was not a virgin. Also I had talked to my ex during our relationship one time and my husband found out (this happened way before we were husband and wife) and he still puts me down because of that. Please dont let it bother you, it is a choice you have made and she had a past before you, which is completly natural. Her past is hers, not yours so leave it alone and live for the future, because thats all you can do (cant go into the past can you?) Just let it be.
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