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36-40,
*leudancer
writes:Ok, Long story short, Fell into a casual relationship without any intentions of it being casual. I really liked this guy, he didn't want the same things = I felt like crap about it. That was 2 months ago. I've seen him a few times since and have avoided talking to him really, just hello's and goodbyes.Today I see him at my place of work which is strange because he lives about 30 minutes away from my job and there's another store he could go to that's closer to where he lives. I saw him from far away and didn't say hello, I don't think he saw me. My co-workers think he walked by on purpose and was hoping to run into me, which after the way he treated me I don't believe is true. He's a very selfish person and was probably just shopping. But I still wonder...Why would he come by my job? You would think that after hurting someone you would at least avoid them so that they don't feel uncomfortable. Why is this bothering me if I know he's an asshole and is not worth my time?I just want to be done with this guy!Thanks all.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (22 November 2010):
 Well he might just have been passing the shop on the way to somewere and called in for a few things as if he is self centred then it probably didnt even cross his mind about how you would feel.
He has hurt you and you know this now you need to get over him, at least you accept that he is not worth your time that is a good start, if you bump in to him again just keep ignoring him, dont even look at him.
In time you will soon find that you are thinking about him less and less and you will be ready to move on.
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reader, Welsh Uncle Dave  +, writes (22 November 2010):
There could be a very simple answer in that maybe he just happened to be in your area and needed to visit the store that you work for and it just so happened it was the one you work in.
Given what you have said, this seems the most appropriate reason.
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