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writes: So my parents are upset because my boyfriend and I cuddle. They keep saying that we are being completely irresponsible, and don't believe that nothing is going to happen. I get where they are coming from, so I decided I am going to do what they want and come up with a plan so that my boyfriend and I don't end up laying all over each other. Does anyone have any suggestions to help me with my plan? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, hiro06 +, writes (22 November 2010):
I got my first kiss when I was four playing house and I plan on not letting my four year old child play house. The moral of the story is that your parents know that things happened and they just feel that you are to young to have that sort of thing happen. I totally agree with your parent. You are still young with plenty of time to experience that sort of thing when you are older. When you are young we all experience those emotions of, which we think is love, but isnt. So, when emotion are high we tend to let our emotion get the best of us and mistakes happen and your parents are just trying to avoid that mistake. I would respect you parents wishes because they know what they are talking about. And plus you want your first time to be with someone special because you know what you never get it back. I wish I had my first kiss with someone more special, but oh well cant go back now. So, my advice to you is take things slow and it will happen natural dont force things and respect your parents wishes.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 November 2010): heres the thing is that everything leads to another now if you in fact do understand them then yes its best to listen to them also take things slow with your bf and make sure your parents see that you are being responsible and tell your bf to meet and talk to your parents for them to trust him
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