Am I doing enough for his birthday?

A female age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Ok so my boyfriend's birthday is tomorrow and he will be turning 30. I am worried I am not getting him enough or anything spectacular. So far the plan has been to take him to his favorite restaurant, super expensive and he has only been there once in his life because of the price. I was also going to surprise him with 2 slices of cheesecake from the cheesecake factory because he loves cheesecake and has never been there before. He knows about this surprise though now, but not the ones I am going to get yet. I'm also going to put one -3- candle in one cake and the -0- candle in the other. I bought him pjs a few weeks ago but wanted to give them to him then. A card too and thinking about balloons tomorrow. And I also plan on finding out how to get xbox pts for him for his xbox live account. He can download games online with the points, or something. I tried to find lingerie but couldn't find anything pretty enough or that fit correctly. So that's pretty much all I could come up with. Do you think that would be a great birthday? Not sufficent, but great? It's just that he surprises me with stuff all the time and does so much for me that I want to do something great for him that he loves. I'm just scared it won't be good enough (he will think so I'm sure or definitely wouldn't say anything if he didn't). And plus that the only actual surprise will be the xbox points. Although I guess he did a lot for my bday and none of it was a surprise, it was still amazing. I jsut make a big deal out of birthdays and he has been te hardest to shop for ever. Do you think this would make your day and a good birthday?? Thanks for any thoughts!

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