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writes:i need help i feel im at a lossover the occuring months i have been posting frequently on here and today im going to give the fullest picture i can.my (ex)partener and I have been together for 18months and we have a 10 month old child together,my GF and i started out very close to the end of my previous relationship of which was serious. i had always had feelings for my current GF, however 4 weeks into the relationship she fell pregnant, we decided to go through with it, during the pregnancy we had two seperations which we put down to hormones because they were quickly fixed again but one coment stuck she said "i was going to finnish with you before i found out i was preg". anyway the remainder of the pregnancy for her was awfull she had sickness day and night, had animia and at the later stages was diagnosed with siatica, in the last days of the pregnancy she couldnt move. she had to lean on me to get about. the birth its self was difficult, she lost lots of blood and baby was delivered with forceps and suction, later after the doctors relised it wasnt baby blues, she was diagniosed with PND, of which she was on one tablet that wasnt working, so they were changed theese ones started to work then she had a fit (she has a history of eppilepsy). she was then put on another anti depresant. she was on theese for 4 months then sudenly stopped.all through the pregnancy and the start of our babys life, we were strong, we were each others rock,all of her friends prior to being preg had lost interest with her,then a male friend contacted her .. i thought nothing about it at first, then they started texting verry frequently, i betrayed her trust and checked her text msgs. to find she was meting up with him after reasuring me she wasnt, since then she has said he likes her but thats as far as it goes, i have since checked her txts to find it seems they are begining to see each other. i cant remember the last time we were intamate with one another but it stopped when she returned from the house party he was at. we are on a break at the moment and she insists she wants no one else but has told him there is no hope for me and her, after telling me there is. i have done nothing but love her and been there for her, but she still tells me she loves meis it likely she has gone off me and moved on, just likes the attention,i realy need help i feel like im being taken for a fool or am i parinoid like she says?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2010): You and her hooked up while u were in another relationsip. Right? Now she is in another relationship while with you. She is a chronic cheater. Just be tere for your baby but finish with her. She was finished with u ages ago but this baby trapped her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 November 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you that would make a lot of sence :)
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (22 November 2010):
 My guess is she does love you as the father of her child but i dont think she is in love with you as a partner or a lover, it sounds to me like she stayed with you because she was pregnant and didnt want to do it alone, you were her back up and as soon as this other guy started showing interest she realised she doesnt need you after all and therefore she has left. It does sound to me like there is something going on between her and this other guy. Am afraid she doesnt want you therefore you just need to accept this. Make sure that you still get contact with your child and that you are a good dad. But try and move on emotionally from her and find someone who will care about you and want to be with you. I think this girl just felt trapped when she fell pregnant and forced herself to try and work on things with you.
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