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*flyjohnson
writes: I have a pregnant girlfriend that I've been with fora year and a half but I just broken up with her today she has money I have nun she gets mad I wont keep spending on her saying I can't take care of a baby if I can't take care of her. She constantly downs me n told me because I didn't have the gas to go all the way to Manhattan to bring her to the bx n back that I'm obsolete n she doesn't need me. She is trying to cheat the government by going to the shelter to get free housing. But says for me to pay for a 1400 dollar apartment n she will stay in her free apt. She had 3000 dollars 2 months ago n didn't even get an apt because she has been hiding rhe fact that she has money. She even told my aunt she has a lot of money but her mom does not want me to no. She she was previous abusive n even knocked my tooth out. She constantly hangs up on me n bring me down so I broke up with her today and I plan on changing my number but its hard because I love her n my unborn baby but she doesn't even tell me she loves me unless I say it and she is 7 months pregnant. She is constantly threatening me With putting me on child support when she gets mad. When we stopped talking for 3 days she started talking to other guys. What do I do. She has also been living with and off me for a year and a half n now says I don't take care of her so who am I I don't want to be wrong but I'm very confused as of now what do I do???
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reader, Rav attack +, writes (23 November 2010):
treat her the way you did before she realized she was pregnant, think of her the way you did when you first met her. if shes a sweet girl id try talking to her about the baby and that you want to be a part of both your babies and her life. and man, you both need all the money you can get.
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