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writes:Hey!I broke up with my ex about 3 weeks now, and in that time for the first two weeks i was no contact with her, and since then we have chatted on a few occasions online and seemed to be getting along okay. I haven't seen or heard from her since a few days ago and she's been very quiet.We are long distance, so the only way i have really of knowing what she's upto is fb/internet.Anyway, I'm not 100% sure what I want , but i'd like to get her back i think. It was her decision to break up but the reasons she gave me at the time were really stupid , but i think i've realised where i went wrong with her.The thing is, she is very very busy and I'm not sure if she's really had time to let it sink in, so i'm just wondering do you guys think i should just try to wait it out a while and be friends and let her bring the subject of us up? or should i just go for it and let her know how i feel? Thanks in advance : )
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reader, boogie4  +, writes (23 November 2010):
being that its long distance, this one's a toughie. I generally don't do LDR for that reason...you can't SEE the person. So you wont know what she's really saying when she says it.
I would just wait it out, and start looking at other options. Keep up an appearance every once in a while with a quick call, but make it seem as if you could care less.
Besides, if she's far away from you, how do you propose to see her and reconnect anyway? Let her come to you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 November 2010): ask her how she feels. its about her, not you.
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