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anonymous
writes: Hi, I'm a average teenage girl and this guy I like wants to makeout with me, but I have never madeout with anyone befoore! Do any of you have tips so I don't.. "suck" at making out ? Thanks :) Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 December 2010): The tip I can hand you is not to use tricks and pre- calculated techniques, but to use your best dramatic skills and pretend you are the lead romantic heroine in a movie. This will aid in forgetting yourself in the moment if you aren't necessarily "feeling it" and swell you with really remarkable confidence (though not necessarily "get you into it... it taskes real chemistry to do that). Instinctual knowing takes over in this state of confidence, so you can just do whatever mindlessly occurs to you to do and be "impressive" or affecting, naturally. Make sure you really have feelings for the guy; I don't think a kiss can be extended into any sorta superamazing makeout session if not (you'll get bored/tired/blaahhhh and need to take a ton of breaks...).
Hope that at least in part helps... you can always "be cute" and try a trick or two... your make-out buddy'd likely get a kick... :)
-Tante Vic
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reader, Mjfbla +, writes (6 December 2010):
Practice on your pillow! haha But if the guy likes you tell him you havent done that before. Then cutely ask Wanna teach me ;) If you make it seem like you have experience you will suck because he will think hey shes done it before..and this is how good she is. If you are open and honest he cant be let done or expect enough to be disappointed. good luck :)
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