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writes: I love my friend.He and I have had a rough go of it; we started out having a bit of a fling, but we never really communicated and it fizzled out, then he started being a douche and frequently ignoring me so I ignored him back. Then he came around and wanted to spend time with me, he invited me to sing backup for his band for a bit and was really nice. Then he just couldn't be bothered again.He's always been very confusing, I never really know what's up with him. Unfortunately for me, I have rather strong feelings for him no matter what stupid antics he decides to pull. He and his then-girlfriend, who he was very close to, broke up a few months ago, and since then we've been hanging out a lot. We jam, go to coffee houses, hang out at his place or just explore the city together (most of these are his idea). He and I were even talking about starting a musical project with a couple of our other friends. He's more consistent with me now than he's ever been, but I can't figure out what vibe he's giving me. Like, he showed up unannounced at one of my own performances, nobody else he knew was there, then invited me back to his place. We didn't "do" anything (sexual), we just smoked a joint and watched TV, but he was really sweet to me the whole time and when I had to go he gave me his scarf to wear so I wouldn't get cold. He was away on the weekend so I still have it. What's he going for? Is he just trying to be friendly , is this some weird rebound-type thing, or is he, y'know, interested? Also: What should I do about it?As mentioned, I'm into him, so if I'm missing something I kind of want to know about it :/
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionsee, that's the thing, though. If we were having sex, I'd suspect the same thing. But we aren't :/
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