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anonymous
writes:First we start as friends but now it more than that we talk all thru the day he call me and i call him he's married and i am married. He is older than me, but i care for him, and he let me know that he cares for me. But he said to me he want me to stay his dearest friend in his life. And told me he don't want me to leave him. Do this sound like he want me to stay apart of his life? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 December 2010): No, it probably means he wants to have sex with you.
If he wanted something else, why would he still be married? Sorry. You are married too - is it worth risking your marriage?
Have you children? How would this affect them?
Please stop and think about what you are doing.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2010): He has a wife
You have a husband
Meaning you both are married but not to each other.
You are too emotionally involved with this married man.
If u did not know before let me tell u now: you are actually having an affair
Pretty soon it will be a sexual one as well.
Do u want your life and marriage turned upside down
Do u want to be known as a home wrecker?
Do u want to be the one to tell your kids what u have been up to?
Do u want to be tainted with the same brush as per other cheating people
Stop while u can and get rid of the MM from your life
LoveGirl
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reader, the_phoenic  +, writes (7 December 2010):
this situation is quite dangerous
because with some laughter and good events between you both it well eventually turn into an unwanted romance
a hurtfull emotional affair or maybe more !
so you'd better cool it down with him because i beleive it is easy in this stage
and find some good friends to make you busy for the moment
Good Luck
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reader, Denise32 +, writes (7 December 2010):
 Sorry, but whether or not he wants you to be part of his life, and no matter how much he cares for you - and you for him - is completely irrelevant, beside the point.
HE is married; YOU are married. This means that your FIRST priority - in fact your ONLY priority - is your respective spouses. Whatever happened to the promise you made when you married to "forsake all others, and belong exclusively to your husband" - and your husband to you?
Forget this man and focus your energy on making your marriage better.
There can be no future in this "friendship."
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