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*yzar
writes: Dear Cupid, I dont know what to do. i feel that I dont want to have sex with my boyfriend, and he told me, 'only when your ready" but i feel like hes expecting me to.I dont know what to do.Ryzar Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, soon567 +, writes (6 December 2010):
Sex isn't everything and if you really care for this guy then put a little faith in him. Most people isn't attracted to others they didn't wouldn't sleep with, just trust him. Whomever you're dating you want that person to love you and yes you want him into you. Your answer is NO if you don't want to do it.
Don't think giving into sex guarantee a relationship!
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reader, Mjfbla +, writes (6 December 2010):
Why do you feel that way? If he said hed wait maybe its just you feeling guilty for not giving him what you know he wants. Dont. Its you choice. Try talking to him. And make sure he is actually pressuring you
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 December 2010): Don't do it until you're ready. If he pressures you, leave him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 December 2010): Just tell him you dont want to, and since it isnt happening anyway.He should just see you dont want to.
Is there anything he's doing to make you feel like its expected? There has to be something he is doing for you to feel presured.
xoxo :)
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