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41-50,
anonymous
writes:i have been seeing a guy for 3 weeks, we have had sex and he has stayed ove my house a lot. now he says he needs a break to figure things out and that he isnt in love with me and that we werent in a relationship. but he has said and texted "luv u" a lot and got aggravated when i didnt say it back right away..what do i do?? im not in love either yet...but i thought we were seeing what was happening. we went to school together and have known each other for 20+ years. he called me out of the blue and wanted to get together..he has been out of relationship for a while. he is not divorced yet, but is going to. their relationship is over, says he doesnt trust her and is not in love with her, but they do still talk.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 December 2010): they have been separated for a year...he has been alone since then. according to her too. they are not seeing each other and she has someone else too. he said he needed time to figure out what he really wants and to focus on finding a job and all.
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reader, Denise32 +, writes (6 December 2010):
 So you slept with him during those three weeks - a foolish thing to do even if you've started dating a single guy, to sleep with him so fast - but this one is not yet divorced.
You wanted to see what happened; well now you saw. Forget him and learn from this experience.......
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (6 December 2010):
 You have your answer, nothing is going to come of this.
3 weeks into "seeing" each other and he says he needs a break. What the hell for, you're not even a couple? Plus he's still married! Let me translate this for you, he is lacking something in his marriage (usually it's sex), found it in you, had his fun for 3 weeks, now he's going back to his wife.
You're not in love with him, and this is going nowhere so it's time to move on and let this blast from the past be.
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