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*humillicious
writes:I've been with my bf for 9 months but we broke up last month and i cant forget about him! I've tried everything i could think of like going out with other guys but it only made me feel worse.. I seriously can't forget about this guy. Were also not in contact with eachother. I deleted his number and changed my sim in anger after our arguement so i have no idea if hes trying to phone/text me. If anyone has any advice on how to forget about my ex then i would be very greatful. X
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reader, Shumillicious +, writes (7 December 2010):
Shumillicious is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thanks guys, i hope it works. X
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 December 2010): It's impossible to forget him i'm afraid but there are things you can do to help you move on.
Try not to dwell on it too much. Go out with friends, do things you enjoy, just don't shut yourself away. The no contact thing is the best way of getting over this so well done for that.
Things will get better slowly. I hate it when people say "time heals" but it is true. It may take a while but you'll get there.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 December 2010): Your cutting contact so I can tell your strong at least!! It sounds like you need to have a good cry and try to come to terms with it properly. I wish you the best of luck xxx
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reader, oliver1 +, writes (6 December 2010):
hya yea you have to give it time,you are only young,enjoy yourself ,because one day mr right is gonna come along and sweep you off your feet trust me and all the wanting and hurt will slowly disapear,trust me ive just come out of a 14 year relationship and it does hurt,but you have to look for positives and do things slowly,don,t try and make contact as this will only set you back again to be hurt further on ,,,
good luck honey,
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 December 2010): There is no magical recipe to forget some one. Just keep in mind that it's only a matter of time. And keep yourself busy. Trying to replace him with other guys might not be a good idea - as you said, that doesn't seem to be working. Get a lot of hobbies, try to meet new people and focus your attention on other things. Good luck.
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reader, dirtball  +, writes (6 December 2010):
 Properly grieve the relationship. That means go through the stages and give it time. Anger, denial, bargaining, depression and acceptance. Things like this take time to get over. It takes time and energy. Don't expect it to happen over night.
Cutting contact was the right thing to do. Once you've had a chance to properly move on, you can possibly open communications again.
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