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writes: ok 1st of all im sorry this is kinda long but thanks for the answers that yall give me! me and my boyfriend have been going out for 7 months! we have MAJOR history with each other for example we have known each other since we were 4 years old! we've hung out at parties sometimes and then hung out for 1 and a half years almost each day (when we were kids plus he was also like my best friend!!) but then i moved and we lost contact with each other! but now after 1 year of not seeing each other i came back and we hang out almost each end of the week he also confessed to me that he liked me when were younger but now, it feels like we're best friends but we both know that we LOVE each other more than that! he's super nice,sweet and really funny, he even always apologizes for his mistakes! we love talkin to each other all the time because we text almost every minute of the day! it's sweet when he kisses me and tells me he misses me, i can honestly say that i love him with all my heart but there are some downs to this for example everyday he hangs out at a public park where him and some of his friends meet(im ok with him being with his friends but sometimes there are girls that hang out with them) but our families are really close because they have known each other since we were practically babies. So this guy im going out with right now is only my third boyfriend but with ALL the history we have together and with our families, im just curious as to how much time do you think we will end up being with each other?? do you think it will last? do you think he's the one!? thanks!!:)
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reader, Jmtmj +, writes (6 December 2010):
Sounds promising, but its best not to think too much about the future of a relationship as you might build up your expectations of your partner which can be crushing when they aren't fulfilled. So don't go making a wedding ideas scrapbook just yet ;)
Just focus on having fun in the here and now- don't try to rush anything or make big plans already. If he's the one then the relationship should progress naturally at its own pace... That's the best advice I can give you.
Good-luck :D
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