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writes:Not long ago I met an amazing man. He lives lives in another country. I met him the evening before he was flying back home. The chemistry between us was amazing. We talked for the whole night (until morning) in a bar/restaurant which is always open. And we slept together. I am not a one-night-stand kind of girl but we clicked and it just felt right. At that time, I was realistic, and aware that I probably wouldn't see him again. But it was an amazing night. The talk, the sex, falling asleep with him caressing my hair... When we woke up, we went for a walk and had something to eat. We were together until he was almost about to miss his flight. He was kissing and hugging me the whole time. He said many nice things about me. I jokingly told him "you don't have to tell me nice things, you already got into my pants" and he said that the fact he already did that was proof that he was being honest.He mentioned several times we should keep in touch. And by Skype and email, we have. We've been exchanging long emails regularly, where we are getting to know each other more. And the more I know him, the more I'm falling for him. He is very sweet and always uses humor in his messages. And he is a bit shy. I didn't want to sound too clingy so despite the fact that I'm dying to see him again, I never mentioned it to him. To my delight, it's like he read my mind, because in his last email he said that he wants to see me again. He says it would be a lot of fun (I'm sure it would. We are not just good sexually, we have a lot of fun talking). But he really doesn't mention how would we manage to see each other again. I think he is serious about this because he seems very determined not to lose contact. For instance, he just went to China, will be there for a week, working, and said he will continue sending news from there. He could just have said he'll be away, and we'll talk once he's back if he wasn't interested, right?He is a singer and I've seen his calendar. He has shows every other weekday and every weekend at least until about a year from now. So I know that it is impossible for him to visit me, and the only way would be for me to visit him. Even if he wants me to visit him, I understand it would be awkward for him to say "Come and visit, we hang out, you watch my show, we have dinner, then you have to watch me singing again." Going to his country is no big deal for me. It's about two hours away, and the flights are cheap.I want to tell him that I feel the same way about wanting to meet again. How do I let him know that I would be happy to visit him without sounding like I'm inviting myself there?
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reader, Mjfbla  +, writes (6 December 2010):
 Uhm well just tell him you really want to see him to, and then ask if he has any ideas on how to do this. Maybe dont say youd b happy to go to hise country, but instead sawy..well I could come visit you if you arent too busy for me :P something that makes it seem like you arent putting tons of weight on them. GOOD LUCK. Updates please!
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