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writes:I've had enough with my mother in law to be,I've been with my fiancé for 5years and were both 22years old,I'm absolutely fed up of how his mum treats me,she had obsessive compulsive disorder (OCD) and she is a alcoholic and she never eats, I've just had enough,I see my fiance twice a week and she moans and moans about me all the time She swears at me,tells me I'm a fat b*itch and other names and I'm fed up of her treating me the way she does and how if I stay over the night I'm the one who gets moaned at all the time,I try and help out around the house make the bed if I stay,wash up etc.. But if I do she doesn't let me do anything same for her sons then shouts at us it's got to the point where the other day i got up and she goes in a mood with my for no reason at all and starts shouting at me and swearing and my fiance seems to just wind me up about it and tells me to ignore her because that's the way she is? now I'm not allowed to stay anymore she's so jealous and controlling!!! I've been brought up from a loving familiy and i shouldn't be treated this way Especially when I've done nothing wrong!! Help me it's even makin me want to break up with my fiancee cos I can't stand his mum and her way and because he doesn't stay up for me and fight back
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (6 December 2010):
If my mother ever talked to my girlfriend like this, I'd cut contact with my mother. That's how badly you're being treated. And worse, your fiance, your Knight in Shining Armour, stands around and lets it happen.
My own mother had this problem, and she stayed with my Dad. Now she's just bitter about everything.
Don't let that happen to you. If he won't stand up for you now, he never will. Unless he stands up to his mother on your behalf, there is no way this will work out. After all, if she treats you this way, how will she treat any children you have?
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 December 2010): You're thinking of marrying this guy????
Hold on girl, just a minute! If he refuses to stand up for you against his mother now, there's no future for the two of you together. She needs to be put in her place by him, not you.
If he can't do that it's time to call it a day. Marry him and as sure as eggs are eggs you'll be divorced in no time at all.
Get out now while the going's good. I would if I were you!
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 December 2010): My mom has been through the same situation with my dad's mom. She treated her like complete sh*t and still does. I would say if you want to marry this guy you need to tell her what's up and that you don't appriciate the way she talks to you. You shouldn't have to leave your future husband because his mom is unappriciative of you. That's unacceptable. If you want to be with him now you need to say something to her and hold your ground because if you let her walk all over you, she will do it for the rest of your life if you marry this guy. So you have to make it clear to her that you won't stand for her bullsh*t.
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