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writes:This is just plain and simple question, I have an ex and well me and her have remained friends since our break up over a year a go, it was not really mutual it was hard on her and hard on me. At first we still loved each other but slowly grew apart. We talk on a semi regular basis, she got a new boy friend and at first didn't want me to know about it until she felt ready to tell me she had a boy friend(my best friend told me and I got pissed off she didn't want to tell me). Then (after 10 months of dating this guy) she will try her best for us to not meat and has complained to me how if she invited me to something with her group of friends, she couldn't bring her boy friend (I told her I am okay with meeting him) she does not believe me one bit, I am over her she is not the girl I want anyways have very little feeling for her since certain things she has told me has really turned me off of her. She then recently has been (this has happen twice within 2 weeks) telling me about certain guy's, who she is friends with, she said she could have him if she wanted to(but latter stated I am happy with my bf at the moment) and then told me how her job hired a new hunk at work she can check out on a regular basis. I know its used to make a boy friend jealous, but honestly it annoys me a little that she says this (since I wonder what she thought when we were together, and internally makes me a bit jealous). Whats going through her head, is this normal behavior in a relationship?
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 December 2010): Cut the crap. If you want her back so just tell her already. She's not over you either that's why she's throwing the other guys up in your face because she wants you to be the one who shows it first so she can be sure it's her you want.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 December 2010): Stop associating with her until you're over her. You're upset and jealous because because for whatever reason you didn't have what it took to keep her attention so she found it elsewhere.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2010): The only way you're going to resolve this is to sink or swim. She still has you by your balls.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2010): Face it dude you are so not over the girl. You're still a greened monster with lime jello legs. If ya was over the girl you wouldn't be a tidbit annoyed and dude ya know ya got smoke fumes coming out all ya crevices that she's ain't all over ya like in the day. I did your broadway act 3 years ago when my chic wanted me to meet up with my replacement acting like I didn't give a pig's ass and I carried it further by saying she should marry him. Ya only fooling yourself dude. Next time treat a chic like she sposed to be treated and ya won't be tortured and pissed.
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reader, amenthyst3356 +, writes (6 December 2010):
The best way to get out of this is to just end contact with her. Once you do get a gf the gf will be uncomfortable with all of her trying to make you jealous.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 December 2010): She sound a bit pathetic. She really sounds like she is looking for an argument or wishes you cared when in reality you just find her irritating.
If you don't mind meeting her boyfriend then she is the one who has a problem with you meeting him, that is obvious and it's stupid she can't see you will work that out. If she thinks she can go around bending the truth and people don't see through her she sounds really immature and therefore is probably just being a drama queen for the sake of it.
If I were you I would stop hanging around with her seem as you seem to have outgrown her
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