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*carley
writes:This is going to be a long one. I met this guy online years ago and we clicked, We were great friends, but then we started falling for each other. Because he lives in another country I pushed him away and we stopped talking. We haven't been in contact for about 6 years, but I still thought about him from time to time and I missed his friendship, so I contacted him again, because after 6 years apart what are the chances that you will both fall for each other again? Apparently they are really good, because now after a number of moths chatting and emailing, we find ourselves falling even harder than before. Although we both want to see each other, it's very difficult.If 6 years of not talking hasn't worked, what will stop these feelings, or should we just stop fighting them and see where it takes us? It would take a lot of sarifice to be together, I realise that and so does he, we just don't know what to do. Reply to this Question
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reader, wcarley +, writes (8 December 2010):
wcarley is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you all for your advice, I really appreciate it. We are going to work at spending some time together in person and take it from there.
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reader, loveistheanswer  +, writes (6 December 2010):
 Sounds to me, at this point, like a case of "find out, or always wonder what could've been" if you're both legitimately single, why not give it a shot? Life is too short, to not take a few crazy chances, girl :)
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reader, Tine  +, writes (6 December 2010):
 well you need to weigh out the pros and con's here exactly what have you both got to lose? And you both know what you have to gain.
Why let theses feelings go to waste, its obvious that you both still really want each other. SO how about a trial run? Go and see him for a while or make him come and see you, work it out in person and maybe you'll both come to a decision.
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (6 December 2010):
 Guys like him are hard to find! You could count your blessings or move on to a more chatterbox kind of dude.
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