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writes: I am deeply deeply in love with my gf but here's the problem she says she loves me too but she is not in love with me. I know we have been through a lot as a couple and she says because of that she has fallen out of love with me and me being more of a sensitive guy rather than an emotionless rock took it very hard. She understands that I love her dearly but our past problems keep her from falling in love with me again so I need help what can I do to rekindle our love? Reply to this Question
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reader, LovelessAct1  +, writes (7 December 2010):
I'm sorry to hear that. I know its not a pleasant thing to be told, especially by someone you care for so much. Sometimes the best thing to do is take a quick, short break.
I'd talk to her about it. Initiate the idea and say you think you both should take a week or two for yourselves. In that time, don't talk or text but don't go on dates with other people either. Just use the time to see friends, get school work done, etc.
Once she starts going through her day without you, she may realize she's been taking your love for granted. If she doesn't feel this way, well then it wasn't meant to be and there isn't much else you can do.
Regardless, take a week off, then meet up with her again so you can talk about how it went for both of you. Decide what to do from there. Best of luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2010): She doesn't know how she feel for you.... she care about you but doesn't love you. There's no such thing is "I love you but am not in love with you." That's bs.
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