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writes:hi, every time me and my boyfriend hug he gets a erection but when he does he moves away from me.like we're on the sofa cuddling and he just moves away from me i don't want him to keep moving away from me evey time why'd he do tha? what should i say to him? thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 December 2010): hiya when i was around your age maybe a bit older around 17 I had the same problem and I learnt how to sort it out, it happened one day when we were home alone in his house, he pulled away and got all awkward but I just said babe I think I want to take things further and we did and I don't regret it one bit just be safe and use condoms.. hope I helped..
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reader, charliesdevil73  +, writes (7 December 2010):
 Chlo and Odds have great answers. You got the best of both sexes for answers. Take them into consideration.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 December 2010): in addition to Odd's answer - you could offer to straighten things out for him, which he'd no doubt be pleased about.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (6 December 2010):
 I can't add anything, but I just wanted to say that Odd's gave a great reply on this one. I second everything he says.
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reader, Odds +, writes (6 December 2010):
 He gets the erection because he's young, full of hormones, and attracted to you.
He turns away because, honestly, erections are kind of embarassing in non-sexual situations. Plus, sometimes it gets uncomfortable, depending on the pants he's wearing, and he has to adjust himself a bit.
The best you can hope to do is tell him that it's flattering, and you don't mind it when you're cuddling. He might take some time to get used to that idea, and he will still need to adjust himself for comfort. Or just ignore it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 December 2010): Men get this ALL the time. What do you expect him to do? If he had sex every time he got an erection, he'd be having sex about 20 times a day! If you're interested, comfortable, etc, let him know. He probably just doesn't want to rush things with you, which is a good thing.
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