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writes:write im 14 and my bf (14) told me to go to his house after school so i did and we went and sat in his bedroom and played black ops for ages and wen we started kissin we got in his bed and we wanted to have sex but i wasnt ready and ran out but he hasnt talked to me in a few days and evert time i try to go nnear him he just walks away wot should i do i need help wot do i do
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2010): You are a child, whether or not you want to hear it, and so is he. He is too immature to understand the consequence of sex and so are you. I say leave him alone and focus on your education, even if this sounds cliche. Wait until you're older and do NOT allow anyone to pressure into sex.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (6 December 2010):
 You avoid him.
I often write on DC that sex is an adult activity, and this episode goes to show it. At 14 he is a kid, and he reacts like a kid when he is denied something- by being rude and spiteful.
Btw, you are a kid too and by law you guys are not supposed to have sex until 16.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 December 2010): Wait till you are a bit older and able to deal with these sorts of things. Wait until you are in a proper stable relationship with a boy you love and trust. Do not have sex until you are absolutely ready and not with a boy who is likely to go off in a huff if he doesn't get what he wants - and make sure you know all about contraception, VERY important.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 December 2010): You are way too young to have sex. Find another boyfriend who will not pressure you and concentrate on school and other areas of your life.
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reader, Marzela  +, writes (6 December 2010):
Just leave it like that. he doesnt deserve you, if a guy really loves you he is gonna wait until you feel ready. Remember that having sex is not a joke you can get pregnant and believe me you dont want to have a baby now.
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