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writes:so i met this guy on line, we hanged out and it was great he told me lots of things about his life. He even told me about his ex fiance, he told me your lucky im telling you this because i normaly never do. So after that night we made out and just holded hands. he didnt txt me the next day, so i txt him but he didnt reply until the next day. Now he txt me in the mornings but takes long to respond idk if i still try and talk to him. I wont txt him if he doesnt or i wont call because i feel like i will bug him. i need advice.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 December 2010): First of all,don't chase after him by texting all the time. So many women make this mistake. If he wants you, he can text you.
Also, if he is only texting at a certain time of day and it takes him so long, he could be in a relationship already.
I heard a lot of people on these sites are already married or in relationships. If you want to know more, you might like to read some of the problems on here, where people find their partners talking online to others.
You need to check him out.
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reader, Denise32 +, writes (7 December 2010):
 Not texting you every day? Why on earth SHOULD he?!
Look, presumably you've not known one another very long, right?
Anyhow, didn't you just say he texts you in the mornings? Maybe the most time he has is before he starts work. Another thing: you both have lives of your own. You're not exactly joined at the hip......
Next time you hear from him, (or the next time you text him) it would be good to wait three days before you get in touch again.
If you fear bugging him, then - don't. Early days, so take it slow and let your friendship develop naturally without pressure from either of you. After all, if he doesn't hear from you for a couple days, he might begin to wonder why, and how you're doing - to miss you. Nothing wrong with that!
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reader, sue90  +, writes (6 December 2010):
If you don't know him too long, don't rush him. Guys don't think it means anything whether they answer immediately or after a day (or even a week). You have made out and I don't think either of you is in love with each other (just yet). Give him some space and time. If he gets the impression you act like a jealous girlfriend before you guys are even together it's likely he gets put off. Try to not answer him for a day or so =) Heads up!
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (6 December 2010):
 Iwould move on, I just don't think he is that into you. I'm not saying people should text back rightaway, but the next day? Sounds iffy.
Ps. Why not call? I don't get how people rather text then call....
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 December 2010): if the guy does not text you,you need to find out what is annoying him
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