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writes:How can I give my boyfriend better head?I've asked him what he likes, and what I should do, and he's given me a lot of input and advice the other day, but I'm still not 100% confident. Since then, I haven't gone back and put it to good use yet. Before I go for it, I want to make sure I can make him cum when I do this time.I really want some advice from girls and guys out there on what makes a great blow job.How long should I be sucking on it? What if it takes a long time for him to cum? I mean, I don't want to be sucking for like 10 minutes straight, know what I mean? Or is that normal?Give me some help and advice!
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 November 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you so much everyone! Things have gotten a lot better since this post. :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2010): Well, one thing that most guys like is when it's wet
It drives them crazy. You know you got him when he arches or moans.
Another part and this can be challenging,
get his whole cock in your mouth.
Go slow or you'll gag yourself
You need to enjoy it to. Try the 69. You both
get pleasure and it's really fun. Talk to him to.
He's a person not a boytoy. I'm done have fun!
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks a lot for your replies, everybody. :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2010): Enjoyment, that's what works. You loving his penis and not being able to get enough of it.
Don't worry too much about making him cum, no need to strain yourself, just enjoy it and do it often.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2010): Lots of practise! The fact that you're asking is a great sign, it shows you want to perfect it. There are lots of really good books/websites devoted to the topic (though, also lots of dull ones which don't give you any special insight) - the good ones are worth a look!
Just enjoy it to the max, and keep asking him what works for him. Bon appetit!
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (7 December 2010):
 There's no such thing as a bad blow job. Guys are excited by the fact that you're giving it attention in the first place. There's actually a lot of women who refuse to give head.
I always say pretend it's the best popsicle, or lollipop you've ever tasted.. Some guys are going to take longer to ejaculate than 10 minutes, so brace yourself to be down there a while. Also, in a addition to thewalkingdude you can check out websites or when you got to the bookstores take a detour down the small sex section and they have some guide books that are extremely helpful and give you visual aids.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2010): Everyone is different and it sounds like you are doing the right thing. You are asking what he likes etc.. so that's a good start. Communication is key so keep that up. Don't put pressure on yourself, it's supposed to be enjoyable, it's not a test.
Some of your doubts stem from your own insecurities. It sounds like your boyfriend isn't complaining. If you still don't feel confident about it there are plenty of websites that give techniques etc...
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2010): There is no exact science to it. Every girlfriend I have ever had does it differently and I enjoyed every one. If he already gave you some tips, he already knows what feels good, or thinks he knows what feels good to him. Try it out..what is the worst that can happen..You try again.
Watch a movie if you want to see how pros do it. He might be basing some of his requests off something he has seen from a porn.
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