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writes:Im confused. my girlfriend out of nowhere started trying to avoid me like the plague. she says its cuz shes worried she is pregnant and is hormonal towards me. its shady to me. she hasnt started period but every pregnancy test is negative. i know she is bi-polar and worries alot. the distance bothers me. my gut says there is someone else
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reader, karmagonebad +, writes (22 July 2009):
Gut instinct is usually right but I'll offer some food for thought. Hubby and I have tried for a baby for months now. Finally last month I miss my period after getting a late period the month before. Still several weeks and 5 pregnancy tests later still no period and test says negative. Now...I'm emotional, get sick every night around 8 and feel tired one night and wide awake the next. I'm almost sure I am preggers. Some women have less of the hormone that a pregnancy test will detect.Still, she shouldn't be acting the way she is but give her the benefit of a doubt. Let her know that you're there for her but keep an eye out for clues to her shady behavior.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 July 2009): Hello there.If you know her well, maybe you can understand her doing.There are many girls out there who is actually faithful. Some of them keep problems to themselves because they don't want their loved ones to worry with them.Unfortunately, during this time, some guy will think there is someone else.When the guy asks the girl, it might become irreversible damage to the relationship. I am only stating in general because I don't know your gf. I understand your feeling because I been through the same thing.Since she is your gf, I think it is best to trust her. Give her time and let her know you are always at her side. When she feels it is the right time, most likely she will tell you what's going on.Good luck.
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reader, Renee okc +, writes (22 July 2009):
well the only way you can find out if she is pregnant for sure is to take her to the doctor, unfortunately if she doesnt let you know what is going on you are out in the cold. Maybe the stress from being bi-polar is causing her period not to come. What you are not saying is why do you think there is another man just because she is avoiding you at this point you will have to take her word for whatever is going on until you get more evidence to say differently. Since you say that you have a gut feeling i would suggest a little investigative work and see what clues you can find out. good luck...
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