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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:I've been with this man for ten years we got married three years ago he has a son with his ex wife in the first seven years of our relationship I hardly had to deal with her because she would not let him see his child so he would not talk to her much only cry from time to time because he was missing his son I think she withdrew the child to punish him because he left her anyways like two months ago she decided to let him see his son so I was happy because I wanted him to spend time with his child..up until a week ago I discorved pictures of the ex wife him and his son at the beach tons of pictures of them together with the child I got angry asked him why he lied to me he said because he knew i would get mad he says he hates her and only went out with her because of his son I feel betrayed like I can no longer trust him he has never lied before this I also called her up and asked her and she said she has no intrest in him as a man but I don't know who I can believe can anyone HELP me make sense of this situation!!
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reader, daglish  +, writes (23 July 2009):
 Iyou have a child with him then am afraid breaking up with him aint one of the options. Your child needs the two of you together. The only way to solve this is to let him you know about his infidelity coz its not fair to have you compete with an ex. Infact its very disturbing. Am sure when his cover is blown he's gonna come clean. This will present a perfect platform for you to talk things over.
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