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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes: I'm in love with my bestfriend and I don't know if he feels the same way. We text each other everyday and he would find time to hang out with me even though his busy schedule. He said that he will never leave me and I am the most important person. He would tell me that he misses me. We've known each other for a long time and recently became close. It seems like he is giving all the signs that he likes me but he doesn't say it. Or am I just thinking way too much?
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reader, Jamez +, writes (22 July 2009):
just tell him how you feel, its best becaise then if he does love you you can be together and if he doesnt you wont loose him because you mean so much to eachother.
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reader, Chay +, writes (22 July 2009):
Hey honey. I know exactly what you are going through, when i was 15 i had a crush on my best friend, she seemed to give me hints ect. I went the wrong way about it and asked her out, and we have never spoke again after that. Sigh. Enyway, it could be that you both have a secret attraction to each other, or he has an incredible friendly relationship with you and you've fallen for it sugar.Does he blow of girls to hang with you? Does he go all happy when you go to see him?Maybe ask him subtly, like " my friend said the most bogus thing, she said you fancy me" If he quickly defends himself or goes embarrassed its most likely he does. Or if he says he does tell him how you feel.If that doesnt work why dont you drop some hints to him. That would make him think are we friends or is there something going on with the two of you.If he askes you why your being all flirty with him and he doesnt like it, well you still have your best friend!good luck girl!Chay x
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