He flirts on-line -- how do I make him stop??

Tagged as: Dating, Online dating, Troubled relationships

<< Previous question Next question >>

Question - (22 July 2009)

2 Answers - (Newest, 23 July 2009)

A female age 30-35, anonymous writes:

hey

my boyfriend is 16 and im 5 months older than him

weve been together a little less than 4 months

i really like him

he's told me he loves me

weve met each others family and friends

and were really happy together

i can just be myself around him :)

but i'll go on bebo, facebook etc

and see that hes flirting with other girls

commenting on their pictures

saying things such as 'your stunning' 'prettiest girl i have ever seen' 'so pretty'

and im really jealous and hurt

ive spoke to him 4 or 5 times about it

and everytime he apologises and says he'll never do it again

but then a week or so later

i'll see him doing it again

what should i do?

View related questions: facebook, flirt, jealous

<-- Rate this Question

Reply to this Question

Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question!

A male reader, RAINORFIRE +, writes (23 July 2009):

Doesnt sound serious hes just being a guy guys white lie to girls all the time telling them there beautfiul there not fat etc, he should ahve more respect for you but at 16 who knows what love is if this boy is treating you well and your otherwise happy dont worry about his online flirting its a bad habit he probably wont grow out of it but the good news is your probably not going to be marrying this guy.

1
2
3
4
5
<-- Rate this answer

A female reader, alwaysreadyandwilling +, writes (22 July 2009):

You wont make him stop if he doesnt want to. Its unclear how much of it he`s done. What you have wrote doesnt say he`s any intention of cheating. This takes me back to a babe (thats what i used to call her). We met online,she was there to find a guy,it was a bit on and off with the guy who was her then real boyfriend. I was suprised to find even when with her boyfriend she was sending rude pics to every barry,dwayne,chris,and garry.No idea who they were but she wasnt backwards at coming forwards. She was in her 40`s and knew better. Now is he anything like that? Keep your eye on the ball,because if he was looking for secret fun,he would hide it well away from you. I know from experience.

1
2
3
4
5
<-- Rate this answer

...............................

All Content Copyright (C) DearCupid.ORG 2004-2008 - we actively monitor for copyright theft