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anonymous
writes: hey guys I really need help. Earlier on the month I posted a question about me feeling like my teacher was flirting and I really didn't get a lot of feed back on it and I'm still hung up about the whole thing. I think about it a lot and every time I do I remember more things that make me more confused. Like I said in my last post I sleep every day in class hardly did any work and I didn't even complete my final exam. On the last day of school my teacher told me there was no way was going to pass the final, the class for the quarter and the class for the year. I recently got my report card and he passed me for the year which amazes me cause he's not the type of teacher to let people slide and other teachers and students who know him have told me that. So I'm still in shock. Another situation he was absent and when he came back my friend asked if he missed the class and in front of everyone he said no I just missed my girl and she asked who it was and he kicked my desk. He told me on any other circumstance we would be friends over and over again. How do I take that? And how do I stop thinking about it? I know there will never be a relationship and I'm not looking to go down that road cause he is married and has a kid. But how do I explain how he acts.? Because he doesn't do it with any other girl. Please give me some advice I'd really appreciate it. Thanks guys
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reader, Jason32477 +, writes (22 July 2009):
I agree 100% with anonymous.No good can come of this.You want me to agree he wants to sleep with you?Ok sure,but do you really wanna be a home wrecker?This guy is married.If he is really willing to sleep around then he is dirt.Its really that simple.Imagine how you would feel if you were his wife.Give her the respect you would give your sister.Put some distance between your self and this guy.Your playing with fire and if you continue your going to get burnt.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 July 2009): you wouldn't be bothered if you weren't looking 'to go down that road'. let it go- it will be painful for all involved. it starts out fun until his wife finds out and it destroys three lives. leave it alone, school is out, why are you being so stuck on this- problem solved, move on!
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reader, flicka23 +, writes (22 July 2009):
I think he is sending you indirect messages that he likes you. For me it's clear that it's no coincidence that he kicked your desk. He is sending you a hidden message. He has even said that he only missed his girl, normally you miss someone who is dear or special to you. When he tells you that he wants you and him to be friends, he wants to become closer to you, beyond the teacher and friend relationship. How can you be sure he does not do it with any other girl? You can never know what happens in his other classes.
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