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Is what he's begun to say to me an idication that he now sees me as a potential g/f?

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Question - (22 July 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 23 July 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Hi

I have a male friend, who I am very close to. We talk every day, and I have been attracted to him for a very long time. Recently he has started making little slips in conversation, accidentally saying sexual things, or implying innuendo without actually deliberately doing it. Is this his way of suggesting he likes me as more than a friend? Or purely his subconscious mind saying what he is thinking? - he is having a rough patch with his girlfriend, and I do wonder if he sees me as a potential girlfriend.

Any thoughts on this would be great.

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A female reader, Tisha-1 United States +, writes (23 July 2009):

Tisha-1 agony auntIt sounds like he does think sexual thoughts about you. But does that mean he'd want you as a girlfriend? I'm not sure. You could try joking back with him, saying in a light manner, "Oh, I don't do anything sexual unless I'm with my boyfriend. Are you proposing that you want to be my boyfriend? Don't you already have a girlfriend?" That'll give him an opening to follow. What he says next should give you an indication of where his mind, heart, desire and lust lie.

Good luck!

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A male reader, RAINORFIRE United States +, writes (23 July 2009):

RAINORFIRE agony aunthes trying to let you kno that he wants more then just a friend from you your a girl hes a guy he would have to be blind not to want to get in your pants freinds or not,if you like him reciprocate if not ignore him hell get the hint but try not to be so sexual around him dont wear strong perfume sexy clothing or talk about sexual stuff.

hes looking for an in give him one if you want him in your a chick you no what to do

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