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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:hello,I met this man through a dating website he lives in my city, I asked him to be friends with me so he said yes. He told me he has a disabilty his left hand has a nerve problem so its not easy for him to type and he even stopped to drive. We went all well for 2 weeks i told him all about me and he too. Suddenly he says to me. Am not sure me and you can be a good match for marriage,i sense you have alot of fire in you and energy and me for various reasons am not the strong man i used to be to make that balance, i hope we can stay friends.Now please tell me what does he mean , then how come he is making ideas about me without meeting me Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 July 2009): i know you're hurt but the thing is if he really wanted to be with you nothing would stand in his way! he's not interested for whatever reason, the point is find someone who is and forget about him. dwelling on it won't do you any good. it's not your fault
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reader, alwaysreadyandwilling +, writes (22 July 2009):
 I think maybe being weaker then he was has developed into an inferiority complex. I know when i hurt my leg skiing and i met someone from a chat room knowing it would be difficult to do my job made me think she would look elsewhere.
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