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Why does it hurt during sex?

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Question - (22 July 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 23 July 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, *oves_giraffes writes:

When i have sex with my boyfriend sometimes it hurts internaly. Why does it hurt? But again often times it feel ok.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (23 July 2009):

It depends how often you've had sex with him. It could be your vagina getting used to being penetrated ask your guy to be a little bit softer so you can both feel pleasure!

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A male reader, Red Green 0289 United States +, writes (23 July 2009):

Emeline may have hit on it... you don't mention if this is realted to a particular positon or act... if you're small and he's well endowed he could be bumping parts of you that were not intedned to be bumped... you could be getting brused. If this is the case, find a position that limits his ability to trust into you... spooning, with him entering you from behind. There has to be some good books on this...

If he's trusting too hard, have him SLOW DOWN... if you going at it for hours, then (good for you!), but take it easy... no need to wear yourself out... if you're dry, then get some lube... if your tight (around his shaft) then you may need to be more arroused and use more lube...

If your sexually active you should be going to a Gynecologist, so I'd ask them. Trust me, it will NOT even come close to an unusual question for them!

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A male reader, RAINORFIRE United States +, writes (23 July 2009):

RAINORFIRE agony auntwhat she said but maybe you need to see a doc something could be wrong with your leadworks

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A female reader, Emeline United States +, writes (22 July 2009):

Emeline agony auntYou guys are probably being to rough. Maybe taking a break or trying it a little gentler. You could also try different positions. Good luck!

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