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writes:Females: How do you react when a guy is hugging you and he gets an erection? Do you act flattered? Are you usually disgusted?I hug this girl from time to time and I always get an erection whilst hugging her. I used to find it embarassing until she said "Happy to see me?" and giggled - which I thought was hot :LBut there is this other girl who I hug often (and I fancy her) and she is not as sexual as the above girl - she flirts a bit but not much. When I hug her for too long, I get an erection and then I have to stop hugging her because I am afraid of what she would think - also, it doesn't help that she's fond of hugging me for a long time!So, I would just like to know what your opinions are on being able to feel a man's erection whilst hugging him.
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reader, hunkydory +, writes (3 August 2009):
When I hug my boyfriend I can feel his erection sometimes, its definately a 'turn on' for me cause it makes me feel loved. but you should find out what each of the girls feelings are towards you as it will let you know yourself where you stand xx
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reader, sugar_sugar  +, writes (29 July 2009):
 It would depend on the guy really. Currently, if it was anyone other than my boyfriend I'd be uncomfortable and cut back on the hugs considerably!While I was single, if it was a cute guy I had some interest in, it would be flattering and a turn on.
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reader, night gurl +, writes (25 July 2009):
 that would so turn me on but dont worry bout it its puberty ever1 goes threw it(puberty not the erextion)
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 July 2009): my friends who are boys they hug me when i come or somethin it's natural everybody do it so if i am in the place of the first girl i wouldn't feel anything different just like u and like the others and i wouldn't be bothered but if u never let me go then ill think ur kinda in love with me and u never want to let me go so if i don't love u i will turn and show myself as annoyed or something but the first girl just felt a little embarrased so to get things better she said happy to see me :D not to mention anything that has anything with love or something but the second girl is just not used to it alot so try to have less hugs than u usualy do to her ! but keep it up with the first girl
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reader, Candy apples +, writes (22 July 2009):
I like it! Lol. It actually boosts my self esteem. Some find it weird tho. Lol.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 July 2009): i'm sure this is a fairly common problem at your age and it will stop eventually. but yeah i would try and avoid any prolonged contact if you are having his issue. the girl who joked was obviously trying not to make a big deal out of it but if it happened to me, well i wouldn't be angry or anything but i probably wouldn't hug that guy again
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (22 July 2009):
 I won't lie to you, I'd be a little skeeved out if a guy hugged me and had a massive erection. It would make me want to avoid the hugs, or at least avoid eye contact. But, if she continues to want hugs, to hold on for awhile, then I would assume that she gets a kick out of your erection.
But, I would do as Ask oldersister suggests and hug from the waist up!
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 July 2009): well i think that would turn me on and i would giggle a little but yeah it would turn me on
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 July 2009): But if she doesn't "take it in her stride", I'm afraid she will not talk to me or things may become awkward
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reader, sammi star +, writes (22 July 2009):
 This is really common at your age anyway and I think most girls will just take it in their stride, my friends and I certainly used to, maybe have a little joke with the boys like the first girl you mentioned! Don't worry bout it hun :) x
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