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reader, mysterious_blonde_lady  +, writes (28 July 2009):
This guy is 48??? And is giving you his mobile number and home address... to get help? This is highly HIGHLY innappropriate. And really weird... i don't like this at all. Steer clear of him. Very odd;; teachers should not be giving their mobile numbers and home details to individual pupils,, major dodgy. You not think?? Don;t you think yourself that this is strange? Did you expect him to give you his mobile number. You know that he is violating his terms of contract - and is putting himself in a position where he could lose his job if reported. This is not good;; not a good sign. There are bounderies lines that should not be crossed; and they are there for a reason!! To protect you from being decieved or pressured into weird abusive relationships with men who are far too old to be trying it on with 17 year old girls. If he is attracted to you;; then this is not a good sign. No proper relationship could ever suffice between you and this man - he will only ever be interested in sex. Social standards mean that his and your relationship could only ever be a secret and therefore purely sexual. Trust me;; you will deeply regret any decision you make to involve yourself with his man - he sounds like bad news.
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reader, kitty_3  +, writes (24 July 2009):
 does he have a girlfriend/ wife?
if not, i see no harm in texting him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 July 2009): spend time with your friends, take up a new hobby whenever you find yourself thinking about him stop and do something else! don't let yourself think about him because that just prolongs your feelings. you're making the right choice
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reader, bubzyy +, writes (23 July 2009):
bubzyy is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks guys I hate deleted his number from my phone.
I still know his address but and its really close to my best mates house but I wont go. I can't stop myself thinking about him =/. And Im 17 and in college, college in the UK you start when your 16. He is 48. And he is always in my brain. Know a way i can stop??? x
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reader, bubzyy +, writes (23 July 2009):
bubzyy is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks guys I hate deleted his number from my phone.
I still know his address but and its really close to my best mates house but I wont go. I can't stop myself thinking about him =/. And Im 17 and in college, college in the UK you start when your 16. He is 48. And he is always in my brain. Know a way i can stop??? x
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reader, HelenaBala +, writes (22 July 2009):
...probably not. Just like everything else, this is a decision that ultimately comes down to you. But you should really try to think of the Pros and Cons before you do anything. How old is he? Bc if he's in his 30s or 40s then you REALLY have to reconsider your feelings for him. Make sure that you know what you're gettign yourself into.
Best of luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 July 2009): no good can come of this! if he really likes you then he can make a move when you're older.
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reader, loves_giraffes +, writes (22 July 2009):
you are only 17 and already in college? wow. i think that you should not call him or anything he could get fired if you are in love with him then you can wait untill you are of legal age.
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reader, kurtyz +, writes (22 July 2009):
 hey eyeswideopen i have noticied u have an attitude towards people who are asking a simple question! but anyway i think u shouldnt bother even if u are in love with him i think a better method would be hangin out with guys and get to know them and u never know u might end up liking him instead. goodluck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 July 2009): If you must be with this man, then wait till you are of legal age and out of his professinal feild of vision. That is what's best for thim.
~Sy.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (22 July 2009):
 If you want him to lose his job then by all means, go round, text him, call him. Or you can do him a huge favor and just hang with your friends this summer.
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