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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Can someone please explain to me what my boyfriend is doing. 3months into the relationship he told me he had a child by some girl he went to college with. No problem since he was with me everyday but not at nights. As our relationship went on more things came out like him sayin he had love for her but not wanting to be with her. When he pick up his son he dont even go in the house. The baby ma stays with her grandma.I went with him to pick up his son twice and he rolls the dark windows up to the van as if nobodys in there. The grandma bakes him food (he claims it's her).Today i have been calling him and got no reply til the last call. He says he's been sleep and woke up at 6:40pm. I called at 6:49pm so that means he just got up. I hear the son and thinks their home. Wrong!!! He's in the grandma house where the girl lives. So wouldn't that mean he was sleep over there? I just told him I'll call back later.When she calls he goes in the other room, she text he turns his back like I wanted to see. He took the son to the baby ma house (with the grandma she stays with) 11:10pm and didnt come home til afetr 12:30am. they dont live far at all. What is he doing? leading me on? Hiding his feeling for her?I try talking he gets angry, calls me "a no life Bitch" or "dumb". The same words he used in the beginning about his ex. Am I making a big deal out of nothing?
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reader, pinktopaz +, writes (22 July 2009):
You are absolutely not making a big deal out of nothing! He is being very shady and secretive, and that's not good. He's definitely hiding something from you, and he is probably still seeing his ex.
I think you really need to let this guy go. Being secretive is the same as lying. You don't want that. Yout want a relationship where you can communicate with one another and not have any BIG secrets. Besides that, calling you dumb or a no life bitch should have been the end of things there. Nobody deserves to be called names like that! He's a loser and obviously doesn't know how to treat women.
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