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writes: Im scared i might be bi.I mean ive always questioned it but im scared to admit it to myself.I mean i have a boyfriend and i love him but i still have feelings towards girls not really sexual just like i like them.i mean i think i have a crush on one of my girlfriends who is also bi and on occasion we have kissed and weve both been like ermm ahh! afterwards.Im really scared incase i lose friends over the fact i may have a crush on this girl an may lead her on when i kiss her if she likes me or ill confuse my boyfriend thinking ill leave him for her wich i wont cos' i do love him, even tho on a number of occasions hes explained he finds it "hot" when girls kiss and doesnt mind if i do so.But i really dont know what to think...i dont know what to do about it.help?
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reader, gRaa  +, writes (1 August 2009):
 ask the girl if she would ever get into a relationship with you and MAYBE kiss her again to remind her what it's like. it may help you too.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (22 July 2009):
You shouldn't cheat on your boyfriend with your friend.
Cheating is cheating whether it's with a boy or a girl.
Also, you are leading her on, and that's not right.
Whether or not you are bi, is something you will find out with time and a lot more thought.
I know schools are not great places to "come out" and at the moment there is no reason for you to tell anyone. Teenagers are hardly open minded since they are so insecure about themselves.
I think the best advice is to tell your friend you have a boyfriend and you can't kiss her again. Then just carry on with life and your feelings will become clear with time.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 July 2009): There is nothing wrong with being bisexual, homosexual, transexual, or heterosexual. If your body is telling you that you are attracted to girls, then maybe you are. You can tell your boyfriend that you won't leave him, and that's great. However, even if he doesn't mind you kissing other girls, it may be best to not continue with that.
If you want more information, look for a Gay Straight Alliance or a LGBT center in your town.
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